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Easier Way To Find A Lost Item

         Do you sometimes lost something and go nuts in trying to find it? Have you misplaced an item and you can find it anymore? So, let’s suppose you’ve lost something. It could be any item in your home or in any enclosed perimeter. It only matters that it’s missing.
This story is about a mystical trick you can use to find just such a lost item. And it happens to be a sentimental one for me, because my mother Anne taught me this method long ago.

She Knows Best
The last time I knew of my beloved mother using this mysterious magick was in a store. She was a customer looking to purchase an article of jewelry. I’m not quite sure if she bought anything that day, though I know with complete certainty that she ended up bestowing a blessing upon a woman in that store in what would be the last five months of her life.

On this auspicious day, the owner of this jewelry establishment appeared upset. My mom, being the kind soul she was, immediately offered help. “Is there something wrong?” she asked. The woman responded that she’d lost a large sum of money. Anne was quick to respond: “Do you have a glass?” While the owner appeared very confused by this request, she was desperate to try anything that might guide her to her apparent loss. At this point, my mother told the skeptical woman to go over to a small table, move the table slightly by one of its four corners, turn the glass over and place it on the corner she moved, all the while envisioning her lost money.

The woman, though incredulous, followed the instructions perfectly. She found her glass, brought it over to the corner of a table, moved it slightly, and then turned the upright glass over onto the moved corner, while visualizing her lost item. The very last instruction my mother offered was to immediately stop looking for the lost money and to simply get on with her day in complete faith that the method would be successful.
My mother admitted to me that she realized that the proprietor of the store thought she was completely nuts but she didn’t care much about that. She flashed me one of her fabulous smiles that often made me feel she knew way more than she ever let on about the metaphysical world. She went on to say that the woman excused herself for a moment, stating she had to go upstairs. Moments later she walked back down with a huge grin on her face and the lost check (aka money) in hand. She appeared utterly amazed and overwhelmingly grateful by what had occurred.

Trust Me, It Really Works
I’ve used this method on many occasions, most impressively finding my contact lens in a carpet. I recall losing it and then hopelessly looking before I went to get a glass to turn over. I’ve always marveled at this particular find, and ever since I first tried it, it’s worked. By the way, you can use any type of cup; it doesn’t need to be glass.
Recently, I thought I had lost something, and just as I recalled the method to myself and how I was going to get the glass—a step I never even got to—presto, there it was!
If you’ve lost an object, you might just love this enigmatic way of finding it without actually looking for it. Why not allow the item to find you? I hope you find this method as useful as I often do.

What Can A Psychic Do For Me?

          No matter what are we in… I still know that all of us, deep inside, want to believe in impossible things. I, for instance, believe in miracles and those who won’t open their her will not see it … As a saying goes “Those who don’t believe in magic will never find it”.

I also have a strong belief in psychics and I have visited many of them, over the years. These included tarot card readers, astrologers, numerologists, psychic-mediums, clairvoyants, etc. Some of them were accurate and others… I would rather forget about as soon as I left them or put the phone down.

Given the many unsatisfactory experiences I have had, I have to ask myself: Why do I still believe in psychics?

What I have learned

To engage properly with a talented psychic requires belief in a positive outcome.

For myself, I know that psychics have helped me overcome some challenging moments in my life. They have helped me with difficult decisions such as moving to a different country and making painful – but necessary – emotional changes in my life.

Psychics have listened to me when nobody else would: they heard my doubts and guided & assisted me in making difficult, often heart-breaking decisions.

These gifted people have also encouraged me to look at life from a different angle and have given me fresh and valuable perspectives and insights that I could never have reached on my own. I know I am in a better position in life as a result of their help and guidance.

How psychics help

Describing the feeling of how a psychic helps is difficult. We are all gifted with intuition, the feeling that something is right for us, without being able to explain why we know this. We call it “going with our gut”.

A gifted psychic helps to deepen this “gut sense”. Through an understanding of our real needs, psychics, in my experience, help us to bring our intuition to the surface: they give us the confidence to embrace and trust our gut instincts. They provide the assurance that our future is in our own hands and that we have the power to change our lives.

Gaining control

Recently I read a fascinating article from a group of Australian researchers. They offered the hypothesis that belief in psychic prediction can be positively correlated to a sense of control over one’s life.

Another new study has found that people who believe that psychics can predict the future tend to feel more in control of their lives than those who don’t.

These findings appeal to me – and tie in with my own experience: in the past, when I found myself going through a difficult time, going to a psychic allowed me steady myself and get on top of things again.

The answer to the question

I believe in the power of psychic consultation because I have proof that it works and is valuable. A psychic helps me gain clarity and insight, and he or she helps me feel in control.

Psychics have given me hope to explore and achieve what at first seemed impossible. That’s the kind of magic I believe in.

Psychics Believers And Those Who Are Not

              “Faith” usually been the cause of so many wars in the history. It can be divisive, where opponents of a particular belief system are intolerant of those with different beliefs. 

It is a strange thing that faith claims to deliver harmony and love, but in a lot of cases is so twisted that it brings nothing but pain and suffering to those of another belief system. But who has a right to tell anyone that the path they follow is wrong?

Non-Believers

The non-believer can come in many forms. There are the ones who will passively non-believe and allow others their beliefs; and there are those who can become aggressive and even insulting when faced with someone’s belief system. It would appear that once the latter have made their minds up – that there is nothing beyond the the physical world –  then everyone should follow their secular credo. But isn’t this zealot-like thinking exactly what they were trying to denounce in the first place?

The Believer

Much like the non-believer, believers also come in many forms. There are the passive believers who will follow the message of their faith and, because their faith is strong and nothing will endanger it, allow others to follow different beliefs. Then there are the aggressive believers: these are the ones who say “my way is the only way”.  They will not entertain other systems of belief to the point of eliminating those who do. Are they really as secure in their beliefs as they claim to be?

Psychics

Psychics who use Tarot and other means of mediation are possibly among the most persecuted of any belief system throughout time. Mainly it is because our beliefs do not constitute a religion. Instead. we have a connection to spirit, without having any real ceremonies or swearing allegiance to any temple.

We come from all religious backgrounds. The reason could be that we believe the two worlds are not all that different and not all that far away from each other. However, there are rules, and one of those is respect for your fellow man. Remember, for every person on this planet, there is someone in spirit who loves them. Spirit does not give psychics all the answers, only the ones they feel they need to deliver at that time.

Why don’t psychics know everything?

When a psychic opens up to do a reading, he or she can only receive what is sent. I like to think of the relationship between psychic and spirit to be a bit like that of parent and child. A parent will offer guidance and protection to the child, but they won’t take the lessons out of the journey because otherwise you would learn nothing. When you receive a reading, bear this in mind. Sometimes spirit – through a psychic –  will take you by the hand and guide you. Other times it will allow you to find your own way around a problem, so you come out stronger at the other end – but you are never alone. During your reading, be aware that spirit always has your best interests at heart.

Should I have to defend my spirit beliefs?

A resounding “no” is my first thought on this. If someone does not believe, then that is their right. I think nothing less of them for their stance. However, if someone does not believe and spends every opportunity dismissing and belittling those who do, I would be inclined to believe that they are not totally convinced that there is nothing after this life, and are finding it a bit lonely out there.

We all have different journeys, which deliver different experiences, because we need to learn different lessons. Yours is unique, only you understand it because only you need too.

A Psychic Can Be Your Angel In Life

      Have you ever reached a dead end in your life? Do you feel that you have fallen into a pit out where you cannot climb? Do you ever feel like you’re a failure? Don’t worry…we all feel like that sometimes, which is why we have to turn to others for help: friends, lovers, therapists or psychics.

The sad truth about changing your life

NOBODY can change your life: ONLY YOU. You can talk to as many people as you want and undergo endless therapies, but they are nothing without a strong desire in yourself to change. You must discover your own inner strength, tap into it, and ultimately reap its rewards.

Therefore, the question is not as simple as “How can I change my life?”, it is “How can I motivate myself to change my life?”

3 proven ways that you can initiate change in yourself:

VISUALIZATION

Train yourself to always focus on positive outcomes. If you are seeking love, then visualize yourself with the type of person you are seeking and the happiness this relationship will bring. Live the relationship fully in your mind – make it complex and detailed – and there is a greater possibility that the outcome will fit your desire. Do this every day. If it can happen in your head, it can happen in real life.

GOALS & REWARDS 

Planning is crucial when it comes to implementing change. Allow yourself to change over a period of time. Set milestones and celebrate the reaching of each milestone with a reward – this can be a small or large reward, depending on the level of difficulty involved. The result is that you see progress and you feel the benefits of change in your life.

COURAGE AND ACCEPTANCE OF PAIN 

Many of us fail in our desire to change because we give up at the first hurdle. However, as t

he old cliché states: no pain, no gain. Nobody who has achieved genuine success in life and love has got there easily – no matter how much they pretend. Accept that effort is involved in change and that pain is part of the process. For example, if you’re not used to running a mile, then the first mile you run will take a lot out of you, but the next time you run that distance, it will be easier. You might end up running marathons! The more you do something, the less effort it takes – remember that.

How psychics can change your life

Psychics are not magicians, but they have the ability to do things that neither friends, therapists nor lovers can. They can provide private, non-judgmental insights about where you are now and where you want to go in the future. They can even tell you if where you want to go is not the place you should go!

Talking to a psychic in a way that you cannot talk to someone else is a great motivating force for change. Your psychic will be your guide, confidante and inspiration.

What Does Real Psychics Do?

It’s no secret, psychics have received a bad rap over the last couple of decades. From fortune telling tents at every circus, to certain famous mediums being exposed or debunked on national television, it’s perfectly normal, and a sign of heightened social intelligence, to be skeptical of the services we offer. In an effort to lift the veil, so to speak, or give you some insight into how we provide our psychic services, here are five things other psychic providers would never tell you.
 
1. Remove the Word Psychic from What We Do.
If you take away the mysticism and talk of spirits, auras, and energies, at the end of the day, we’re here only to help you. Many of us, on this platform anyway, have day jobs, relationships, and troubles of our own. We log on because we feel responsible to share whatever gifts we have with those who need them. If you remove the word “psychic” from what we do, really when you call us, we’re just people who give advice. We honestly want you to have the best life possible. We want that missed romantic connection to spring back up from being seemingly lost in the past. We want you to be offered the job of your dreams, have a beautiful home, healthy love life, and to travel your life’s journeys trouble free.
Unfortunately, many of those desires aren’t possible, but, two heads are almost always better than one. Better than just the opportunity to be given advice, we do so in a completely anonymous way. When you call one of our advisors, we aren’t given your account information to look at, we don’t know where you live, who you are, or what your story is unless you tell us. You can openly talk about your feelings and desires and never feel judged or neglected the way you might talking to somebody in real life about the same concerns. We don’t gossip amongst each other about readings we’ve given or use any tactics to make a conversation last longer than it should. Strip away our psychic abilities, and we’re still people who want one thing, and that’s whatever you want for yourself.
 
2. We Can’t Explain Our Abilities.
As an author, and as a psychic, if anybody should be capable of explaining a psychic connection, it should be me. I want you to know that it’s impossible, unless you’ve had one. I know that seems like a cop out, but imagine this. If I asked you to explain what it feels like to stub your toe, you might say it’s painful, it’s normally sudden and unexpected, you might even delve further and explain how it’s a sharp pain, normally lasting between 1 and 10 minutes, etc, etc. But if I asked a person who’s not in tune with their psychic abilities to explain what a psychic connection is, they’ll get a bit lost. The reason for this is simple, we explain through relation.
If I tell you that I hit my funny bone off of a table yesterday, you’ll likely know what I meant because you’ve had a similar experience, but if I tell you that I sensed danger in a woman’s life in front of me at a supermarket, you’d probably have no idea what I meant. This is why we seem so weird when you listen to our messages on the website or read advertisements for any psychic anywhere. We’re trying our best to explain a sensation that most people won’t ever experience, and that’s the source for nearly all the skepticism surrounding psychics.

3. We’re Almost Never Certain
I don’t mean to say that there’s no upside to being in tune with energies, spirits, or auras, but almost all psychics have “I can’t believe I didn’t see that” moments. In my experience I’ve had callers ask me if they’ll be reconnected with an ex and I’ll sense an upcoming romantic relationship with a person from their past who they’ve been romantic with before. I’ll ask questions about the ex and try to get a good sense that I’m reading the same energy that they’re explaining, and instead of forcing the call to go on for more time by explaining what I’ve seen, I’ll simply say “yes”. In most cases, I’m right, but in other cases I’ll get calls back weeks later where the original caller ran into their high-school sweetheart at work and fell in love all over again, then I seem like a fake.

As advisors, we are all still learning every day. We’re going to make mistakes, we’re going to misread certain situations, and sometimes we’ll be way off. This is in no way an indication for the power of our psychic abilities, rather, a sign that we’re actually human. Because of the way energies and auras work, there’s no certainty in many situations, but we can guide you in the right direction.

4. We’re Applying a Skillset That Everybody Has
You’ve had plenty of experiences before where you’ve known what was about to happen before it happened. You can sense when people are upset, in pain, or feeling good, we just take that a tiny bit further. Our gifts are simply an attunement to the world around us that most people never bother to practice. Sure, you may be unable to pinpoint exactly what’s going to happen, or specific events in a person’s past, but with practice and dedication, anybody willing to try can do what we do. Some of us haven’t had to practice these things, and were simply born with a heightened sensitivity to these events, but our skills are like any other in that way.

5. No Problem is too Big or too Small to Talk with Us About
I’ve actually attempted to hone into the energy of a close friend, just to see if he saw where I left my car keys. I’ve also attempted to predict presidential elections by going to rallies and reading the candidate’s energies. Believe me when I say that your problems are important to us as well. We get thrilled when we hear that somebody enjoyed their reading and found the advice helpful, and we’re devastated when somebody feels like we weren’t connected. We want to help you, that’s why we’re here. There’s no reason to feel afraid or apprehensive when using our services. So give it a try, pick up the phone and talk to a psychic for a few minutes, what do you have to lose?

Do You Need A Psychic Or A Spiritual Psychic Reader?

     As Norman Vincent Peale once quoted “No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities…always see them…for they’re always there.”

We have all had bad days, we have all experienced periods when the whole world seems gloomy and to be against us. At such times finding balance and confidence is very important; it is a real challenge to lift ourselves from the darkness. However, it can be achieved – by establishing a genuine connection to your internal spirit: your life force. The challenge is finding a way to connect to that spirit.

That’s where a psychic can play a crucial role.

Psychic reading or spiritual reading?

Usually, those who seek a psychic reading are preoccupied with thoughts and worries about the future: will they find love, money or happiness?

Psychics provide insights into where a person is now and where their potential lies in the future. They empower people to take action by suggesting possible outcomes, as divined from a tarot card reading.

A spiritual psychic reading is entirely about the now. it provides reassurance so that you can be true to the spirit that guides your existence. It lifts your mood because it reconnects you with your true self.

The value of readings

Spiritual psychic readings are invaluable to those in need of inspiration, guidance, encouragement and healing. They also help banish negativity and offer a way of moving towards enlightenment and empowerment.

This in turn helps you create the life you wish to experience and enjoy.

Spiritual readings nourish the essential idea that answers and progress lie within. We are not and should not be at the mercy of external forces.

Talk to a spiritual psychic reader

If you would like to talk to a psychic who can provide the spiritual guidance that you are currently lacking, go to our psychics page  and connect with one of our gifted spiritual readers. You won’t regret it.

Awaken Your Inborn Psychic Abilities Through Meditation

      Do you want to clear your chakras and awaken you psychic abilities? It could be hard to understand especially for some of us who aren’t expert in the area but we will teach you the process in turning on your psychic abilities and clearing your chakras.
 To begin, sit comfortably in a quiet place, arms relaxed and resting on your thighs, palms open and facing upward. Your feet should be flat on the floor, preferably without shoes. This grounds your energy to the earth to help receive and release energy back to The Divine Source. Envision the swirling energy of the chakras radiating color in your body and breath in those colors and energies to cleanse yourself of all doubt, fear, guilt, worry, anxiety, stress, depression and negativity. Take deep, cleansing breaths filled with love, peace, harmony, wisdom, empathy and understanding.
The first chakra: Root chakra, red in color and located at the base of your spine. Envision swirling red energy. Breathe in to the count of four—representing the four directions (north, south, east and west)—and hold for a count of four, then release your breath to a count of four. Repeat this three times for each chakra:  “I am sensing more every day in every way.”
The second chakra: Sacral chakra, orange in color, and located in the lower abdomen. Envision swirling orange energy. Breath in, hold, release and say: “I am perceiving more in every day in every way.”
The third chakra is yellow in color, located in the solar plexus. Envision swirling yellow energy. Breathe in, hold, release. “I am becoming more intuitive in every way in every day.”
The fourth chakra is green in color, located in the heart area. Envision swirling green energy. Breathe in, hold, release. “I am feeling more in every way in every day.”
The fifth chakra is blue in color, located at the throat. Envision swirling blue energy. Breathe in, hold, release. “I am becoming more psychic in every way in every day.”
The sixth chakra is indigo in color; The Third Eye—located in the middle of the brow. Envision swirling indigo color.  Breathe in, hold, release. “I am seeing more in every way in every day.”
The seventh chakra, violet in color, is located at the crown of the head.  Envision swirling violet color. Breathe in, hold, release. “I am becoming more Knowing in every way in every day.”
You can now feel your soul lifting up surrounded by glowing, swirling colors of energies to put you in divine alignment with The Divine Source of the universe and access information intuitively to increase your psychic ability. Practice centering yourself and finding that quiet within to tune into yourself and your soul on a daily basis. Your soul speaks to you! Be willing to listen and be receptive to the messages it offers you.
“I am becoming more psychic in every way in every day.” Practice thinking, saying, and believing this daily basis!

Can A Psychic Read Someone Else Through Me?

   There are times that we consult psychics not really for ourselves but because we wanted to know something for other people or want to help them but does it really works?

“I’m so worried for my son,” Rita said. “He just joined the military, and I know he’s been having a rough time lately. I just need to know what we should do for him. Can you read for him? Does he have to consent?”

“I’m sure my husband is cheating,” Sue told me. “Can you look and see?”

“My mom is getting on in life,” Bill said. “I want to help her clear away negative karma with her family before it’s too late. Can we do that?”

These are just a few of the requests I get from clients to do readings on behalf of others. As we move into the holidays, people are thinking about their loved ones and feeling grateful for family and friends. It’s natural to want to help those we care about, and at times it is completely appropriate to get a reading for someone else. And there are also times when it’s really none of our business what someone else’s future might hold. 

Examining Your Motives

Intention and motivation are key for me when a client asks me to do a reading on someone else’s behalf. I’ll first ask what they hope to gain or accomplish, why they want the reading, and why the person in question doesn’t contact me themselves. From this initial conversation, I can usually perceive the ulterior motive and whether it’s in alignment with my values as a reader.

For Rita, I did agree to the reading as long as she had her son’s consent. He was surprisingly intrigued by the idea, though he wasn’t in a great place to contact me himself for a reading as he was currently in bootcamp. Her motives were to help her son, and she was willing to go to extraordinary lengths (for her, psychic guidance) to find what was best for him.

With Sue, I asked her many questions to determine what was really at stake. While she had a genuine fear that her husband was cheating, the core issue was that she felt the marriage was stagnant, and she was sexually frustrated and playing with the idea of an affair. I did not feel looking at her husband’s energy field was going to reveal anything useful. We did a Tarot reading to explore the opportunities present in the situation, and I drew a card to represent his energy at the present moment. That card was the Eight of Cups, which was quite revealing. Because we addressed her issues rather than the projections she had about him, she was able to enter into conscious dialogue with him about their marriage.

Bill’s case was common, and I agreed to the reading with the caveat that I would ask permission from her at the soul level first, and if she could consent to me that way, then we would proceed. His intentions were to make the end of her life as smooth as possible and positively impact any future incarnations. I did ultimately end up clearing a lot of negativity and outdated contracts for his mother, and though it couldn’t impact the actual process of aging, he did report that she was much less angry and seemed more peaceful.

What Types of Readings Can You Get?

Not all readings are suitable for getting by proxy. Other people have free will, and so fate-based questions like “will he” or “should she” are almost impossible to do with any accuracy. I also feel that reading for people to see what choices the other person might make is ultimately a cop out for my clients. A more empowered choice is to do what they want to do, not spy on the potential actions of others.

Readings that examine energies in which you both have a stake can be revealing, like in Sue’s case. So a psychic or Tarot reading is appropriate once you can get to the heart of the querent’s question. With clients who can’t give consent—such as the elderly, mentally ill people, the developmentally disabled, or small children—looking at their energy fields and doing repair and clearing out chakras is helpful. Reading Akashic Records or doing past life clearing can also create incredible change for their future, if not their present.

Composite astrology readings can be tremendously useful in understanding the energy and purpose of the relationship itself. Synastry—or the comparing of two birth charts—can give clients insight into how they are reacting subconsciously with the other person. Similarly, having your child’s natal chart read can give you great parenting insight and help you understand your child better.

Ultimately, all psychics have to decide their own boundaries for conducting readings by proxy. If you have good intentions that are meant to empower the person for whom you want the reading, then getting a psychic reading for your loved one can be the best first step in helping them.

Ways To Know If The Psychic Is Real

There are some clients who really wants to know how to solve their problem or seek help from a psychic but they are afraid on what they’ll find out and they are skeptical most of the time which will lead them to test a psychics ability.

“So, um, could you tell me something? Like, I don’t know, what kind of pet I had as a child?” Isabelle was nervous, perhaps a little skeptical. It was her first time on a call with me.

“Why would you want me to do that?” I asked her. I  knew, of course, that she wanted me to prove my ability—or what she would consider psychic ability, but I wanted her to say it.

“But you are supposed to be able to know stuff. Then I’ll know you are for real.”

“Isabelle, is this the most important issue you want to address today? Is this why you called? Do you need to make contact with this departed pet?” I smiled so she’d hear that I was gently teasing her.

Isabelle laughed. “Of course not, I’m just, you know, nervous. What if you are a scammer? I mean, no offense, but…”

This is a common situation for psychics. It’s understandable that people want to test a psychic to see if they have real ability. That is fair enough. But—there’s no way to reliably do that, except to really trust who you’ve chosen. Psychics work in different ways, and many of us don’t have the ability to tell you those kinds of facts because being able to “see” someone’s past, their sun sign, or their grandmother’s maiden name isn’t part of what we actually do. Some psychics can, but most of us focus on working with information that will truly be helpful to our clients. But while playing “test the psychic” is not the best use of your time, there are steps you can take to ensure you pick a psychic you feel you can trust and depend on.

Make an Informed Choice

I spent another few minutes chatting with Isabelle to help her feel comfortable, and then we finally got around to why she’d called. She wanted to make contact with her brother who had died the previous summer in a motorcycle accident. I explained to Isabelle that I did not work as a medium, and while I could address the issues that were unresolved in her after his death, she’d be better off working with a true medium to contact his spirit. She was disappointed. I didn’t blame her, but I asked if she’d done any research before deciding to contact a psychic.

“No,” she replied. “I mean, I thought you all could talk to dead people and stuff.”

That’s a common misconception, too—thinking that all psychics will have identical abilities. So here’s my point: do your research! You wouldn’t pick a dentist, buy a car, or choose a caterer without doing simple market research, so why not apply those same rules of smart shopping to choosing your psychic or spiritual advisor?

Psychics have specialities—like a medium, who focuses on contacting transitioned souls or a fairyologist, who works with fairies—and we are real people with different personalities. Most professional psychics have their own website or a profile on a site such as Keen that you can read to learn more about them. Usually, there will be a picture, testimonials, and a review section from previous clients. Rates and anything else you will get for your money—like a recording or download—should be clearly published.

A Quick Guide to Success

Here’s a few ideas to help you choose an advisor successfully:

• Be clear about what you want help with. That way, you can get right into the reading without worrying so much about any time limit.

• Take the time to read profiles, testimonials, reviews, and the “about” pages of your prospective psychic’s website. Look at their picture. Do you feel comfortable with the information and image they present? If not, move on.

• Be certain that working with a psychic is what you need and want. If it’s your first time, be open. There’s nothing to be afraid of! Often, people call a psychic when they need an actual counselor or even a crisis hotline. If you are in crisis, a psychic may not be qualified to help you—contact a loved one or the appropriate agency first.

• Set aside time before your session to get ready for the reading. Afterward, take the time to integrate what you learned and reflect.

• If you are working with a per minute service, have a timer set for the time/money you want to spend. It’s not the advisor’s job to do that for you. Time can fly, so if you are concerned about cost or have your own time limit, keep track!

• If you are calling or using a chat service, don’t call when you are upset. You won’t make your best choice of reader, you probably won’t be able to take in what they say objectively, and you may even spend the bulk of the reading trying to calm down. Psychics are wonderful, compassionate people, and we’re happy to be there for you, but you’ll get more out of a reading if you are in a calm, open, mood.

• Set realistic expectations about your reading and acknowledge the limits of psychic abilities, especially when it comes to predicting future events.

If you follow this guide, you’ll have a good chance of having a positive experience with your psychic. If you have made an appointment with an intuitive or called into a site like PsychicOz, then you already have some curiosity and belief. Rather than trying to quiz your psychic to make sure he or she is legitimate, let yourself be open and see what happens. You’ll likely be pleasantly surprised!

Things That You Need To Know Before Hiring A Psychic For Events

Everyone celebrates their birthdays in their own way, whether it be through ventures such as parties, out of town getaways, treating their family in an awesome dinner, purchasing something as a gift but there are those who wants to see a psychic to know what lies ahead after their birthday or for it to be included in their party.

Just be wary of a few things:

1. Get a co-sign

You can’t just go to the first psychic you see on the side of the road. I mean, you can, but it’s pretty ill-advised. You want to know what you’re walking into, so you can put yourself at ease beforehand. Do your research and ask around. Yes, it’s probably a little bit weird to ask about psychics in the area over Yik Yak, Cluck or a UMD Facebook group. But hey, better safe than sorry!

2. Don’t set your expectations too high

They’re psychics, not therapists. Most likely, they’ll be able to enlighten you about certain subjects pertaining to your inner emotions, conflicts or desires and then give you their little two cents on what to look out for. But they can’t tell you everything about everything, or how to fix it all. Be open to the process and take it for what it is, assuming no more and no less.

3. Just relax

The happier you are to be there, the better the outcome. Sure, in the beginning, it’s easy to believe that the whole thing is really no big deal, but people tend to have different reactions once they actually get in the room. All of a sudden, anxiety or a certain guardedness can set in, so try to remain at peace. And in the case that your sense of hesitance doesn’t go away, just bow out gracefully.

In addition, don’t dictate the conversation. In a lot of ways, it’s great to tell your psychic what kinds of questions you want explored, but wildly interrogating him or her about the most intimate inner workings of your life is never going to work. Keep the conversation to a minimum and just pay attention to the psychic, steering him or her when necessary. You know, just enough to stay the course.

4. Take it with a grain of salt

There is no way your psychic is going to hit everything on the nose. In fact, half the time you’re asked a question, you’re probably going to answer with, “Ummm, no.” And the fact that he or she will be doing a lot of the talking, doesn’t help all that much, either. So, you may feel a little awkward. Try not to hold it against anyone.

On the other hand, if you do end up getting super into everything your psychic is saying, be careful with that, too. Maybe she’ll bring up health problems. It doesn’t mean you have a year to live. Maybe he’ll say your boyfriend is keeping something from you. It doesn’t mean he’s a sex addict. Let it all sink in, while also trusting your instincts.

5. If all goes wrong, DIY or call a psychic company with good reputation

If you can’t find a trustworthy psychic around, or feel as though your experience is a dud, just walk out. Besides, there are plenty of other ways to explore the spiritual world outside of a “professional” help. Grab some friends and buy a Ouija board, look up info on tarot cards, research astrology or study up on how to read each other’s palms. Sometimes, if you want something done right, you got to do it yourself. Or better yet do a research and call a reputable company who has good feedback and choose the psychics that each of your visitor felt comfortable with.

Alright, now go make some memories!