It can be nerve wracking to go to your first psychic reading!  This is an exhilarating time that will be able to provide you crucial insight into some of the most pressing concerns in your life right now.  To help you feel a bit more confident ahead of your reading we have compiled a list of helpful tips on how to get yourself ready for your reading.

Understand You Both Have a Responsibility!

Despite what you might think, both a client and a psychic have specific duties during a reading.  The psychic must ensure a balanced energy, provide a relaxing private space, and allow for ample time for you to receive and process the message.  You, must manage any anxiety to ensure you keep as relaxed, receptive and honest as possible.  You and your psychic will be working as a team during the reading to help interpret the messages, make sense of any questions and create meaningful action steps for you to do after your reading.  The goal for you both is helping you move forward on your life’s journey.

Prepare Your Spirit the Night Before a Reading

Your body, mind and spirit need to be in the best shape possible for your reading.  The night before you will have some homework.  Set an intention for the reading that resonates with your highest self.  Abstain from alcohol, caffeine, tobacco and drug use.  Instead, drink plenty of water and get ample sleep.

Ground Yourself Before the Reading

Allot five minutes prior to your session to settle your mind and body.  Start by taking a few deep breaths from your diaphragm.  Set an intention for the reading and understand your motives or expectations.  Let your eyes close and envision your higher self being awash in love, courage and peace.  If you find it difficult to do this visualization, you may choose to meditate, pray, focus on your breathing or give yourself a simple affirmation.

Your Reading Happens in a Quiet and Private space

Unless you have chosen to take part in a group or television reading, you will be in a tranquil room with just the psychic.  You both will be free of any interruption for the duration of your session, so you can feel relaxed and open to listen to the message from beyond.  You will be safe on all levels and encourage to share your feelings and insights at all points of the reading.

Prepare a Limited Number of Specific Questions

Try to limit your questions to less than five of your most pressing concerns.  It is best for you to phrase your questions in a way that asks either “why” or “how.”  Psychics will always work to ensure the freewill of all parties concerned in your questions and as such, will not help in any manipulation on any level.  Make sure to focus all questions on yourself and your self-growth.  It is ok to want to contact a spirit who has crossed over or to discuss relationships you had with a person who is either living or dead, as long as you maintain a pure heart and everyone’s freewill.

Make Sure the Message Makes Sense!

This is your time to get clarity on your pressing issues.  If you have a question or concern speak up!  The psychic will periodically check-in with you to make sure the message is impactful, but you can ask for clarity at any time.  By asking questions you are helping the psychic know they are on the right path for your self-growth.  In the last few minutes of your reading you can work with the psychic to create action steps to help on your journey towards healing and self-growth.

The memory of the soul is known as karma. Karma is long standing and can tart in prior lives. In fact, our current life course is often determined by other, earlier lifetimes in which things were left unfinished. The things we failed to make right in previous lives will often present themselves again and again in this life. When the situation I unpleasant it is lingering karma that we can resolve and reverse. To erase the energy that is carried over we must acknowledge the properties of past life karma that are explained below.

No Expiration Date

Karma I carried as luggage from life to life. Unlike real luggage it I never lost which mean at some point you must sort through what I inside. Without even making the realization, you could have karma collected from past lives. When you unpack this baggage, you can confront the karma and lighten your load.

No Coincidences

We all have people that come into our lives for a reason. In fact, everyone in your life is there for a reason. While we do have free will to stay around someone or walk away, karma will overpower if this person needs to be around.

Karmic relationships will play out regardless of what we want. Acknowledge each person’s role in your life so that is settle, good or bad, and you can move forward.

Becoming What You Have Done

Karma is often trivialized as what goes around comes around, but it is more expansive. There is both positive and negative karma in life. Our actions in past lives will be played out in current or future lives. If we steal, we will be stolen from, but if we are giving, we will be given to over time.

Role Reversal

Karma can cause us to reincarnate in reverse manners. A parent could have been your child previously. Souls can also switch genders. The position shift is based on karmic need to repair or heal through the changing roles. Those you know in this life may have had a different impact in past lives.

Karma Repeats

Karma repeats itself to teach you to take new actions to achieve different results. If the same things seem to happen in life repeatedly, inspect your choices and make changes. This honest introspection can be tough, but don’t be afraid. Once you recognize what needs changed, you can get started in modifying your behaviors to end the karmic patterns.

We cannot ignore that past life karma is present in our current lives. Start working up the courage to unpack your karmic luggage and get rid of what should not be stored there. This can change your destiny for many lives to come.

Sometimes defining enlightenment is hard because it is different depending on how you ask the question.  If you don’t believe in the spiritual realm then you might feel that there is more life than you know, and this can mean that you might define enlightenment as knowing that you can be one with all things that exist.

Becoming Light

The word enlighten means to become light and when you are spiritual, you feel that you can look at things as light.  Light is important and is seen as a divine source and therefore light is made up of organized information and everything is made of light.

When you feel like you are enlightened, you will feel that there is light on every level of your being.

In the light of mind, it means that you can see light in all things around you, including yourself.

In light of heart it means that you take things lightly and you aren’t too serious.

Light of the body means that you have gotten rid of things that weigh you down such as weight, sickness and tiredness.

Witches

Witches do not really believe in enlightenment because it is more of a westerner thing.  Enlightenment is from the West and witches believe that life is spiritual, and they do not believe in battling the darkness.

Dark Side

It is easy to think about dark or night, but this isn’t real.  Spiritual enlightenment is united, and it means that night exists within the duality realm and enlightenment doesn’t fight against darkness.  It sees it for what it is, a divine source.

We don’t really have another word for divine source other than enlightenment because this is spiritual.

Trap Door

The trap door is the balance of light and dark and is a way to get both spiritual endarkenment and spiritual enlightenment.  Witches don’t talk about enlightenment because they don’t believe in it.

The trap is that holding the dark means to reject light, and this is impossible.

Truth

If you stop honoring the dark, then you will become attached to what it is.  It is important to find truth and to figure out what is important.  Suns are born but they die and then darkness will live on.

Dark isn’t the ultimate truth because when the universe dies then duality will be lost, and darkness and light will be meaningless.

We need to embrace both darkness and light.

Wiccan Enlightenment

Wiccans view spiritual fulfillment as a manifestation on earth.  They don’t look at enlightenment.  They also believe in spiritual rebirth of the planet and that it is always changing.  Enlightenment according to wiccans can be a state of awareness.

Wiccans want to expand awareness to consciousness and communicate with the divine.

Full Enlightenment

One definition of enlightenment is different for everyone, but the highest level is knowing yourself and all things as being divine.

Realization

Part of enlightenment is realizing that you can’t divide yourself form the divine.  You can’t separate from God.  You can’t lose the divine.

Self-Realization

This is when you realize that God is there and that you are part of God. You will know this as universal, infinite, love, unlimited and when you know God you will know yourself.

Modern forms of long-distance communication allow us to easily stay in touch with friends and relatives even if they live in different countries or on different continents from us. But despite these modern conveniences, we still find ourselves in situations where someone we care deeply about is ill, injured, or going through a challenging episode in their lives, and we can’t physically be with them to provide the level of support we’d like to.

Thankfully, it’s possible to help others heal by sending non-physical energy. This can even be done from a great distance. The most common method of distance energy healing is to simply send energy across time and space to the person we want to help. You don’t have to be physically present together to transmit and receive healing energy. It can be done at a time set and agreed upon between the sender and the receiver.

Distance healing may also be done using other non-physical approaches. The sender and receiver can get out of their bodies and meet together while in the non-physical state. This will help even if the receiver does not clearly remember the experience. They may simply recall the episode later as a form of inspiration or insight that occurred to them.

Another method involves spirit guides or helpers that perform the energetic work. Thinking about the person you desire to assist may trigger actions by your spiritual helpers, or by the spiritual helpers of the person that you’re trying to help, on behalf of that person.

Sending and Receiving Healing Energy

Any time we think of somebody, we naturally make a connection to them and send them energy. The externalization process aims to amplify this connection. Anyone can learn and perform distance energy healings, but the process must be taken seriously. If your intentions are good and your means are ethical on all planes of existence, you’re already off to a positive start.

The most typical method of distance healing is sending energies to the person you want to help. Our energy is a non-physical component of our whole self that vitalizes our physical body. Alternative medicine practices this method when promoting improved health.

Your energy produces multiple different effects on the person who’s receiving it. It can calm them, make them feel better, rebalance their chakras and energy body, boost their vitality by positively affecting their physical body, accelerate their recovery, and act as a catalyst in their healing process.

The externalization distance healing energy process simply involves sending some of your energy to another person. This can be done without imagination, visualization, or any other rituals. To perform this process, you will likely need to make several attempts to find the specific mental command that triggers your energy to flow outward. It may take 50 tries or more for you to perform the process reliably, so persistence is important.

To practice, simply begin pushing your energy out. It will help to focus on the energy flowing out through only one side of your body, so you can compare the feelings on that side with those on the other side of your body. These feelings will vary from one person to another. Also, it’s normal to doubt your abilities at first, because you may not be able to discern if what you’re feeling is energetic or physical.

Regardless, you should express confidence in the process. With practice, you’ll discover the specific command that makes your energies flow. Your energy sensations will become clear and become more obviously different from your physical feelings.

For the healing energy to begin working, the receiver must accept the external help. While it is useful to select when and to whom you will be energetically open, based on rational criteria, general mistrust and disbelief will block external energy and make the distance healing more difficult.

Here are several more helpful tips:

• After sending out your healing energy, you should always make a conscious disconnection. This prevents you from leaving remnants of the process in your energetic system.
• Avoid creating a pattern of externalizations. In other words, don’t send out healing energy at the same time every day.
• While certain practices and methods should be followed, you mustn’t mystify the process.

Discernment and Healing

It’s necessary, especially at first, to gauge the quality of the energy that is coming through. Energy from a lucid, cosmoethical healer will feel serene and comforting. It may feel deeply focused and serious, but relaxing and allowing the energy to connect deeply with you will make it easier for you to trust and receive it. The same approach should be used even if the energy is coming from a relative or friend. And if something doesn’t feel right, you should end the process immediately.

The time it takes for a distance energy healing to produce results can vary quite a bit. There may even be times when the attempt will not work at all. The person sending the energy may not able to send enough energy, or may not be able to send it in an adequate format or density to produce the desired effect.

Sometimes, the person receiving the energy may feel better within mere hours after the healing session. Other times, the effects are seen more in the long term, days or even months later. Complete changes in medical diagnoses have been experienced after distance energy healings.

Don’t worry if this all seems implausible. There are many approaches out there—from mystical and esoteric, to objective and technical. So, a healthy dose of skepticism is good as you explore to discover which approach suits you the best. If you’re interested in this type of healing, it will help you to trust your discernment, listen to your intuition, and proceed with an open mind.

Several individuals seek help from psychics because they are not sure of the route to take in their lives be it love life or another area. Guidance is very important in psychic readings and you need to take in advice that you have received through reading into consideration. It is not easy to stay on track once you begin speaking to a psychic. This is might be because you are too excited to talk to them or because you both get along very well. You need to know why you are calling the psychic so that you be aware of what question to ask. You should pick a psychic based on their skill. This will give you the best results. There are different kinds of psychics, you’ll just have to choose the one that best suits you. If you have different questions to ask, we recommend you note down the key points that have been said during the reading. That’s the only way you can review the answers you were given to see if any change has occurred. If you don’t know the kind of questions to ask during a reading, below are some key examples you can ask.

1. Is there something, in particular, you can see about my love life? And what advice do you have?

This is an open-minded question and that’s great. This kind of question doesn’t require a yes or no answer since you want to know more. A psychic can start asking you different questions like whether you are dating and what they trust will happen to your relationship. Several times, psychics can just pick the main points from something specific that will change the whole reading.

2. Are there any big transformations in my future?

You will be good at dealing with changes in your life if you prepare for them well. In any case, you ask a psychic this question, they will tell you what will happen and when. At times, a psychic can see something then picture where your life will be. They’ll even tell you where you’ll live.

3. Is my career on the right track?

Psychics have a special gift when it comes to understanding people spiritually. They can feel something about your personality and tell you the areas you haven’t explored. When you ask this question, a psychic can recommend what you need to do to ensure your career is on the right track. A psychic can tell you whether you are or analytical.

4. How can I move on after experiencing hard times?

A psychic knows what you can do to heal, spiritually. It’s essential to internalize what they recommend because they are likely to explore distinct options you have never considered. They can even reveal how your spirit guide can help you on this path of finding happiness. This is an excellent question to ask because the psychic can reveal a lot about personal strength.

5. How can I discover true friends in life? Do I have true and loyal friends?

A psychic can inform you if you are looking for friends in the wrong places. They can tap in into bad encounters you’ve ever had with people and tell you the path you must take to discover your true soul connections.  A psychic reader can tell you if you are going to meet someone soon and if they are good people. This type of question can be asked by people who have encountered toxic friends for the better part of their lives and would like to know if things will turn positive.

Some have become doubtful and cynical when they are looking for a psychic.  Some have bad experiences with online psychics and phone psychics.   This can lead to people to not seek help when they need it. They may try to use tools such as Tarot cards and horoscopes but don’t know how to interpret them so they just give up.

They don’t realize that they just needed to find the right psychic for them.  This involves doing some research.  Most people have a bit of psychic ability. Those that we call psychics are very intune with their gifts.

Psychic readings use tools and techniques to help them access the information that they need. Some use cards, some use astrological charts. Some cast runes and/or use stones.  The tools allow them to guide their clients.

If you are skeptical, you can get a chart reading.  This is because the psychic can’t  “cold read” your expression, body language and other attributes.

If you choose to go to a psychic website for just these features, you can consult the site itself for the testimonials and references that others have posted.  A reputable website will show both good and bad references.

These websites usually offer a chat option that gives you a chance to be read by a few different advisors so you can select the right one.   This chat will let you know what kind of advisor you can connect with.   The websites will also feature articles and blog postings. This will help you get an idea of what you want to find out.

Predictions and readings aren’t magic wands. They exist to help you make wise choices to make sure you one the right path.  A good reading  can help you prepare for the next phase of your life.  We all have free will, thus it is up to you to use the wisdom gleaned from your reading however  you choose.

Psychic readings help you make choices. They help guide people along their life path.  They can be empowering. It can help you make decisions. They are not absolutes. The information is yours to use as you see fit.

There are quite a number of opportunities that usually presented to grow relationships with other individuals as we continue with our journey through life.  When we are young we have a relationship with ourselves, friends, parents, and siblings. We include our peers, teachers, and friends in our lives when we go to school. Our focus as young adults is frequently romantic relationships. Romantic relationships always bring us to the starting point when we get in serious relationships as we will now be having new friends and family to interact with.

If you would like to nourish a successful relationship in your life, then Reiki is definitely an effective tool to use. Know that each relationship is a living creature, that’s the first step. After that, it now becomes easy to feel attached to your emotions and feelings and serve as a medium of energy healing that the relationship is directed to.

Imbalance in relationships is always as a result of fear or power related issues. Locate the areas that are vulnerable or imbalance. Your main focus should be the identification of these areas. Selection of an object which can physically symbolize the relationship is frequently helpful. Items that can effectively serve in this role are pictures, crystals or gifts that people have exchanged with each other over time.

The reasons for isolating an object is to clearly pay attention to the healing vitality when working on the relationship and to able to visualize when conflicts arise by giving you a point of reference.

There are frequent vulnerabilities in relationships that show signs that are on the surface very much and can only be seen when dealing with real issues.  The reason why we attract relationships is to help us grow. This usually happens to enable an individual facing power and control lessons to select a relationship with a docile person or a controlling individual. Bringing this vitality into balance is very essential for the survival and peaceful transformation of the relationship.

Isolate objects which symbolizes your relationship if you want to determine the things you need to work on to heal your relationships. Locate a place where it cannot be disrupted and place it. If you would like to carry it with you then put it in a special case or bag. Find a place where there is less interruption. You can stand or sit down facing the object and create an intent prayer.

After saying a prayer, draw all the Reiki symbols and invoke the names of the symbols three times as you draw them. Then draw the symbols on both your palms, third eye, crown, throat and heart chakras. After this process requests the Reiki vitality to flow fully and completely through you for the purpose of gaining clarity and healing this relationship.

Seal it in divine love and healing if you feel like the process is complete. It is essential to appreciate the healing that has just occurred by saying thank you to both guides and forces for their help and send back Reiki to them. Once you’ve felt the energy, let it flow.